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На почеток имав сосема погрешна претстава за тој сајт судејќи чисто според насловот.
Прекрасен сајт. Не, не се работи за противници на бракот, напротив!
Се работи за луѓе кои се изгореле во своите врски со типичните западњачки жени и нивната изопаченост.
Сајтот вели: American woman = modern western woman from any country (во оваа категорија одлично се вклопува и огромно мнозинство од нашите жени. Да, иако сме далеку од западот во многу работи, у суштина обичаите на потрошачкото општество односно најлошото од западот одлично се инсталирани кај нас така што авторот дал прекрасна слика која важи и за нашите жени,бар повеќето од нив)
Саможиви, изопачени, непожртвувани, „неспособни за било каква врска“ ко што пее Елена М2,без смисла за хумор,човечност и да не редам.
Сум кажал и пак ќе кажам, јас немам проблем со феминизмот. Клара Цеткин и Роза Луксембург гинеле на барикади за право на глас итн..да не мешаме работи со скопскиве принцези (читај: курвештии).
Majority of American women have Histrionic and Narcissistic disorders. *
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We are talking really serious stuff here. Most American women have at least two serious personality disorder. And having personality disorder(s) and being a good wife are mutually exclusive things. That means American women are completely unfit to be wives and mothers.
Histrionic disorder: manipulative, attention seekers, dominate the conversation, use grandiose language, seek constant praise, dress provocatively, exaggerate illnesses in order to gain attention, exaggerate friendships and relationships, believe that everyone loves them.
Narcissistic disorder: self-centered, seek attention and praise, take advantage of people, fantasize about success and power, expect favorable treatment, exaggerate achievements, have difficulty maintaining long-lasting relationships, expect others to recognize them as being superior.
Many American women also have Dependent, Obsessive-Compulsive, and Borderline disorders.
Think about the women you dated and see how many of them had the combination of: mental/biological/genetic problems (defects), tried to kill herself, depressed, mood-swings, arthritic, psychotic breakdowns, unhappy, nutcase, every condition known to man, deranged attention whore.
Learn more about personality disorders here.
More on Narcissistic disorder, lots of problems with western women are related to it:
The only reality which exists for the narcissist is their own, and even when they are repeatedly shown to be wrong or misinformed about something, they will maintain their original stance, despite all contradictory evidence, no matter how compelling.
They have no interest in understanding reality, or others. Instead, they project themselves onto the other: - in lieu of internalising the other, they externalise and generalise themselves.
It has often been noted here that it is difficult to tell whether the narcissist is stupider or madder, as there are such strong elements of both in their disposition.
And the madness is real. The narcissist will twist and distort reality to infinity in order to place themselves at the earth's center. No amount of objectivity shall be allowed to intefere with this. This is their prime objective, and they will talk any amount of nonsense to achieve it. They don't care. There is only them, and their prison is a familiar, comfortable zone. It has walls padded with velvety self-deception.
So the narcissist is not just weak, stupid, vain and unrealistic. Because if their condition was just a composite of common character flaws, they could change, grow out of it, be reasoned with. Nor is it just an act of will, for when they are shown that their interests are not best served by unflinching selfishness, there is no change.
Narcissism is a mental illness - a psychological disease which shares many characteristics with schizophrenia. It is a 'self' trapped in and constructed solely by infinite self-reflections reiterating to infinity.
It cannot change. It cannot be treated. When the window of internalised other closed in childhood, it jammed shut - never to let light in again.
NoMarriage.com manual has a comprehensive test to help you determine if your girlfriend will make a good wife. Personality disorders is one of the 10 things that make women to be unfit wives and mothers.
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* More on statistics:
Medical community generally says that only 2-3% of American women have Histrionic or Narcissistic disorders. That is obviously an outright lie that flies in the face of common sense. Read about various disorders on the above link (it's a fun project, you might even find that you have a disorder of your own), then think about all the women you dated or women you know well (particularly women between 25 and 30 years old). You will see that almost all of them have at least one disorder, and majority will have two or more disorders.
Medical community generally says that 80% of women have a short-term form of Postpartum depression (also called baby blues). But the baby does not go away after a few weeks. Responsibilities and stress do not go away after a few weeks. If baby, stress, and responsibilities make 80% of women depressed for several weeks after giving birth, then they will be even more stressed and depressed after 6 months of constant dealing with the baby.
What we have here is medical community that is afraid to say that a big percentage of American women have very serious mental problems.
Описов комотно може да се употреби на жените кои ги среќаваме околу нас. Прекрасен социолошко-психолошки профајл.
И после да не се чудат луѓе што многу луѓе си бараат соулмејтс во други земји. Да, ќе се заебе некој, тоа не е спорно, никаде не е совршено, но дали можеби вреди да се проба?
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